The truth of the matter is that you can't be invited to join the casino's VIP program unless you're betting like a casino whale. That's because all the bonuses, exclusive invites, dinners, and other amazing comps come from your own losses. Obviously, the casino is not a charity and needs to turn a healthy profit. By giving out comps, they are essentially rewarding a class of players for their continued loyalty. The trick is that you think the casino is paying for them, when in fact, you are!